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NEW MIDDLE AGE (60 85/90 Years)
An
opportunity, not a threat !
Middle age starts with
retirement from active work and lasts until the onset of infirmities. This gap of
about 25 to 30 years between chronological old age and functional old age is called
middle age. It offers the last and the best opportunity to get the most out of life.
- MOTIVATION
FOR QOL
- This period is extended by your
motivation and emphasis on the quality of life. This is the most opportune period for
self-development. By now you are wiser through life's experience. You have plenty
of free time as the responsibilities of work have been relinquished. There is time
therefore, to devote to refining your inner qualities.
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- PREVENTION OF MAJOR ILLNESS
- Avoiding harmful habits and being aware of your health during
working life can protect you as far as is possible, from major illnesses.
- Participation in outdoor exercise, hobbies, relaxation,
family life and spiritual interests are additional benefits. Avoiding frequent rich food
and late nights, moderating habits with tobacco, alcohol and mood stimulating drugs and
reducing anxiety by having realistic ambitions will help you live longer.
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- EROSION OF MIDDLE AGE
- Middle age may be shortened abruptly by major illness, for
example by cancer, disabling strokes or heart attack. Middle age can be eroded by falls
and broken limbs, or by the death of a family member or the loss of a helper. Confidence
is lost making one house bound, or bed room bound. Once bed -bound, the descending spiral
of develop contracture of limbs, in-continence, pressure sores and confusion may develop.
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- PLAN
RETIREMENT
- Planning for retirement is most
essential but ignored by many of us. About 10 years before retirement is due, plan to
maintain the fitness of your body and mind and make provisions to correct possible
financial short falls and psychological fears.
Your home should have
easy access to a super market, post office, pharmacy, bank and public libraries. Give
importance to family members and friends living near by. Consider living on the ground
floor level to avoid accidents while using the stairs. Promote hobbies or in the absence
of hobbies, extend work experiences perhaps as a charity volunteer, gradually devoting
more time to these in the 5 years prior to retirement.
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- MANKIND'S OBJECTIVE
- According to Lord Buddha, our
objective is onward evolution. This is achieved through developing humanity- friendly
qualities like honesty, humility, helpfulness and harmony with fellow beings, and hard
work. Socrates, the celebrated Greek philosopher of 400 B.C.said, life begins at
40. The Bible mentions old age as three score years and 10 (70yrs). At present, due
to increasing longevity, the meaningful middle age begins twenty years later at the age of
60yrs and one is old at four score years and 10(90yrs). Globally the
number of people independent with the activities of daily living at the age of 90yrs is
steadily increasing.
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- DEPRIVED OF MIDDLE AGE.
- In developing countries over one third of people are
deprived of rest and relaxation during middle age.They are the labourers, farm workers,
rickshaw-pullers, small shopkeepers and shop assistants who have to work long hours to
provide for the present and are unable to make financial provision for the future. They
are insignificant to the materialistic middle and upper clsses and to governments, but
need help in the form of subsidised food, shelter, and medical help. Day care centres at
easily accessible sites can provide facilities for social interaction and offer free
counselling for the elderly and their problems.
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